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HomeMy WebLinkAboutDRC proposalDispute Resolution Center of Yakima and Kittitas Counties Proposal to Yakima City Council, Public Safety Committee Convene community conversations to gather input on Yakima City resolution regarding Sanctuary City/Welcoming City status • The Dispute Resolution Center of Yakima and Kittitas Counties (DRC) has been in existence serving the conflict resolution needs of area residents, businesses and agencies since 1993. Primarily this work is in the areas of mediation, facilitation and training. • The DRC would like to propose a process to gather community input on an issue that has inspired considerable passion and energy on the part of many city residents, that of the city council passing a resolution on Yakima being a Sanctuary City/Welcoming City. • We envision using a small group conversation model where DRC facilitators would guide tables of 6-8 community residents in having conversation on the topic. • These table conversations would use a circle process which includes each participant reflecting on 3-4 questions and then sharing their perspective and thoughts. Each table would then identify common themes and suggestions and record those to share with the assembled group. During the sharing time a representative from each table would share those common themes. • The facilitated meetings (possibly, one per voting district) would give everyone equal voice to share their perspective. There would not be a centralized focus for comments, the presence of which may promote those with the most strident viewpoints dominating the input. • The Dispute Resolution Center would utilize DRC mediators and, potentially, other trained facilitators in the community, to convene these meetings and guide the input process. • We envision the meetings being held in public settings in the evening in each of the seven City of Yakima voting Districts over the course of three to four weeks. Participants at each of these meetings would generate common themes and ideas. • A follow up city wide meeting would take place to integrate the input from the initial meetings into one document to then share with the city council at a follow up meeting. This meeting might also include a facilitated circle process (with circles of people smaller than 50 in each group) so that everyone's input on the final document could be gathered. • The final report would then be presented to the city council at one of their regularly scheduled meetings. The DRC is eager to assist in this manner if the city council determines it would be helpful. In order for the DRC to undertake this effort, it would need to have funding to make it possible. The anticipated costs for the DRC's Facilitation Services are outlined below. Possible other costs are noted as well. • Planning & report writing cost to conduct the meetings, $100 per hour. Capped at 8 hours. Comparison of Circle Process and Facilitated Conversation Circle Process Positive Aspects: 1. Helps insure that everyone has a chance to speak their piece. 2. Interruptions kept to a minimum. 3. Listening enhanced. 4. Because you slow down, things move forward relatively quickly. 5. No cross talk limits defensiveness. 6. Circle process is designed to build/strengthen community by building relationships among those present. Limiting Factors. 1. Since facilitator doesn't provide feedback in middle of each round, he/she doesn't have opportunity to reframe hurtful statements or those that cause defensiveness. 2. Process allows folks who don't want to say anything to remain quiet. 3. Once started, it is hard to break off process partway through. (need 2-3 hour commitment to complete at a minimum.) Facilitated Conversation (actively using mediation feedback skills) Positive Aspects: 1. Feedback from facilitator helps insure that people feel heard. 2. Facilitator can use reframing, paraphrasing and interest identification to move process toward the positive at multiple steps along the way. 3. Encourages participation even from those who are reticent to speak. Facilitator can draw people out. Limiting Factors. 1. Depending on trust level, participants can feel as though facilitator is twisting their words when he/she reframes or paraphrases. 2. Because of active intervention of facilitator throughout, this process can demand that the facilitator have a high level of mediation skills. Sarah Augustine, Executive Director, director@drcyakima,org Felicia Staub, Mediator Coordinator/Trainer coordinator@drcyakima.org Susan Bailey, Office Manager/Executive Assistant admin@drcyakima.org Lucy Urbina, Intake Specialist, Victim Offender Meeting Coordinator lucy@drcyakima.org Staci Verbrugge, Foreclosure Case Manager foreclosurecm@drcyakima.org Evelyn Heflen, Kittitas County Outreach/VOM Coordinator Lowell Murphree, Mediation Services for Seniors Coordinator Mediation gives people the chance to talk and solve their problems. Mediation is confidential. Board of Directors Deneille Beaulaurier - Abeyta-Nelson Injury Law 'Salie Cockrill - Volunteer Mediation Trainer & Facilitator DJ Henn - Realtor Puneet Kakkar - Memorial Cornerstone Medicine, physician Dary Reed - Performance Consultant Ernily Ring - Inklings Bookshop Lani-Kai Swanhart - Retired Lawyer & Court Commissioner Tony Swartz - Attorney Lorinta Umtuch - Retired Tribal Judge Scott Wilson - Southeast Washington Aging and Long Term Care Dispute Resolution Center Serving Yakima and Kittitas Counties Since 1994 (509) 453-8949, Yakima (509) 925-5123, Ellensburg 303 East D Street, Suite 4 Yakima, WA 98901 email: info@drcyakima.org website: drcyakima.org Timeframe to agreement on issues Two to three months One to two years Tone Cooperative, constructive, fair Adversarial, antagonistic, divisive Decision -makers You and the other party Court system Likelihood of litigation Iessthan 5%) High (about 40- 50%) Confidential Subject to public disclosure From Martindale -Nola Research Mediation is a positive alternative to court and is very successful most of the time. Have a voice in the decision and resolve your dispute privately and quickly. Use mediation! Contact us today! of Yakima and Kittitas Counties Since 1994 "People create resolution to conflicts with our help." Dispu RESOLUTION Center of Yakima and Kittitas Counties Mission and Vision The DRC of Yakima and Kittitas Counties provides services and training for people to solve disputes peacefully themselves. Our goal is building strong, compassionate, peaceful, families, businesses, and communities. What is mediation? Mediation is a voluntary, confidential process through which people involved in a conflict can sit down with a neutral third party to resolve their differences. Our mediators are professionally trained and certified. They listen to both parties and work with them to create a list of topics to be negotiated. With the guidance of the mediators, the parties negotiate and discuss the issues and create an agreement that is acceptable to those involved in the dispute. Things to know about mediation • All parties must voluntarily agree to participate in the conflict resolution process. • Mediation is confidential. • All services are available in English or Spanish. Mediation Services The Dispute Resolution Center of Yakima and Kittitas Counties (DRC) offers a safe, neutral space where parties can find common ground and resolution to their conflicts. The DRC provides our community with a constructive alternative to litigation and going to court. Mediation services are available for a variety of circumstances including: Family Mediation Work Divorce or Separation Issues; Parenting Plans Parent/Youth Conflicts Elder Care Plans including estates, guardianships and medical treatment arrangements Professional Services for Businesses and Organizations Did you know that unresolved conflict represents the largest reducible cost in many businesses?' It pays to develop better communication skills and conflict resolution abilities for a more productive and profitable workplace. We offer businesses and organizations the training, facilitation and mediation services that improve communication, negotiation and listening skills. We also offer a variety of programs that can be tailored to your specific needs. Mediation Services for Seniors Helping seniors, their families and care providers resolve conflicts such as: sibling disagreements; selling the family home; extended family living arrangements; disagreements between care providers and family; guardianships; trust and estate matters. Small Claims Settle small claims cases before trial. Additional Mediation Services Consumer/Business Disputes Landlord/Tenant Disputes Personal Loans Auto Accidents Property Disputes Neighborhood Disputes Vieth Offender Meeting Program - by referral only. Learn the background of the youth's offense; answer the victim's questions; discuss the impact of the crime; acknowledge the harm; increase community safety. VOM services provided at no charge. Foreclosure Mediation - by referral only. This is a process where a neutral third party (the "mediator") helps the homeowner and the lender (the "beneficiary") openly communicate and reach a fair, voluntary, and negotiated agreement whenever possible. FEES: How much does it cost for our services? Intake Fee: $25 for each party (The fee is charged for General, Family, and Trust & Estate Mediations, The fee must be paid by the initiating party before the DRC contacts the other party and paid by the other party before mediation is scheduled.) General Mediation Fees: $50 per party Family Mediations: $125 per party (Applications are available for hardship assistance, The fee scale begins at $25 per party.) Trusts & Estates: Generally, $125 per hour Custom Facilitation, Training & Workshops: Fees start at $200 per hour No one is denied service based on inability to pay. Call the DRC for more information at 509-453-8949 `Dana, Daniel (1999), Meosuring the Financial Cost of Organizational Conflict, MTI Publications; Slaikeu, K. and Hasson, R (1998), Controlling the Cost of Conflict, .iossey-Bass Publication Please call or e 1 e DRC to discuss how we can help resolve conflicts in your family, business or organization. 303 East "D" Street, Suite 4 Yakima, WA 98901 D info@dreyakima.org www.drcyakima.org (509) 453-8949 fax (509) 453-0910 Kittitas (509) 925-5123 Dispute RESOLUTION Center of Yakima and Kittitas Counties STEPS TO RESOLVE A CONFLICT I. Think of a constructive way to deal with the situation before you speak. 2. Both people need to agree to ground rules: • No iniemrpting DisputeRESOLUTION Center • No name calling or put downs • Speak for yourself, not for the other person 3. One person tells her/his view of the situation using I -messages. 4. Second person restates what the problem is for the first person (steps 3 and 4 are repeated with the second person telling his/her view, and -.he first person restating.) 5. Both people suggest and list possible solutions. 6. Both agree on a resolution by choosing from list in step #5. 7. How did it go? What might work better next time? -...M11=0a11M.111•113•SW o: Yakima and Kmnas Counties VMOSIM AN "I" MESSAGE HAS FOUR PARTS: "I feel " (state the feeling) "when you " (describe the other person's behavior) "because " (describe the results of the other person's behavior) "and I want " (state what would correct the situation for you) WAYS TO ACTIVELY LISTEN I. Clarify - get more information, ask questions. 2. Restate - Say in your own words what you heard the other person say, including their feelings 3. Encouraging - using neutral or non -threatening words to help another person say more about the situation and how they feel. CONFLICT NOT SOLVED? CALL THE DISPUTE RESOLUTION CENTER OF YAKIMA AND KTITITAS COUNTIES Yakima (509) 453-8949 Ellensburg (509) 925-5123 or 1 (800) 853-8949